A poem I wrote for my boyfriend.Read More
I don’t know where you are in your journey, but I know that you do have a future. There is a place in this world for you and it is a happy one and a safe one.Read More
I didn’t cry at my Mum’s funeral.
I was 19 years old and she had been just 39 when she died suddenly. Neither of us were old enough for it to happen, but it did.Read More
For the longest time I was ashamed to talk about smear tests and especially afraid to admit that I hadn’t been yet and the reason why: I was sexually abused in an intimate relationship and the thought of being vulnerable, exposed and not in control of my own body was so scary that it crippled me.Read More
As dramatic and almost exciting as being dragged out of a burning building or shoved out of the way of an oncoming train by the former host of QI might have been, we both know that isn't what happened. In fact, it's really very weird to me that you don't know what DID happen - because it is everything to me, and your role (although unknown to you) was so important.Read More
Being in an abusive relationship changed me forever and, as my self respect has blossomed, I learned how to let go of people who were stunting my growth.Read More
You may have noticed that my site has been down for a few weeks and that it now looks different and that is with good reason - I’ve been having a digital identity crisis (which is just dramatic for: I needed a rebrand!).Read More