Gaslighting: What is it and why is it dangerous?

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Gaslighting “Gaslighting” has become more commonly talked about over the last couple of years and I attribute at least some of that to the increasing number of people talking about Mental Health on the internet. Because of the link between trauma and serious mental health conditions (mentalhealth.org), the online mental health community is naturally full … Read more

Fear of Killer Whales: I’m terrified of Orcas

underwater image of beams of light penetrating the deep water

I am the Queen of Procrastination. Seriously, if I run out of Insta to scroll and Netflix won’t load (and there’s some kind of deadline looming), I’m going to get me some scissors and cut myself a big ol’ fringe (bangs). It doesn’t matter that I don’t particularly suit a fringe. It doesn’t matter that … Read more

How to set boundaries on social media

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For many of us, myself included, social media has provided an outlet for self expression. At times when I felt I had nowhere else to turn, Twitter was somewhere I could turn to and talk openly about my mental health. Living with mental illness can feel very lonely. For me, opening up online has helped … Read more

The man on the hill (a poem)

A path that leads up a steep grassy hill. Blue skies with a few clouds and mountains in the distance

From time to time I find myselfOn a long and dark familiar trackI’m here more often than I’d likeThough I once said “I won’t go back.” Each time I walk the path, I learnA slightly quicker way to go. And I am slightly more prepared, It’s how life works; the more you know.  Last year I met … Read more

The Anxious Empath

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An empath is more empathetic/ empathic, more tuned in and more sensitive to others than the average person. This means they’re more likely to shoe-hop (put themselves in the shoes of others), spot when someone’s not feeling 100% and spend time working through other people’s problems.  This post was originally published on pigletish.com on July … Read more